Geishas are an integral part of Japan’s rich cultural tapestry, embodying centuries of tradition, art and hospitality.
Geishas and their apprentices, known as maiko, play a vital role in preserving Japanese culture, representing an elegance and grace that have captivated people for generations.
Far from being mere attractions for tourists, they are skilled practitioners of various traditional arts, including music, dance and conversation.
In recent years, there has been a growing concern regarding the disrespectful behaviour of some tourists, which undermines the dignity of these artists and endangers the cultural heritage they represent. As a result, places like Kyoto’s geisha district have introduced restrictions to manage tourist access.
By understanding and adhering to proper etiquette, travellers can help honour and protect the role of geishas in Japanese society.
What is a geisha?
A geisha is a woman trained in the traditional Japanese arts, specialising in performing and socialising to create a refined atmosphere. They are distinguished by their exquisite kimonos, elaborate hairstyles adorned with intricate ornaments and signature white make-up.
Geishas typically have a wealth of knowledge about various cultural aspects, including tea ceremonies, poetry and traditional music, allowing them to engage deeply with their guests.
A maiko, on the other hand, is a geisha apprentice. Usually younger, maikos are in the process of learning the skills necessary to become full-fledged geishas. They wear more colourful and ornate kimonos, with different styles of make-up that signify their status as trainees.
Geisha etiquette
When visiting areas where geishas perform, such as Kyoto’s Gion district, be mindful of the cultural norms around interactions with these artists. Here are some key points of etiquette when encountering geishas in public:
- Respect their space: Approaching geishas without invitation is considered intrusive. Always maintain a respectful distance, do not chase or touch a geisha and avoid speaking to them in public or calling after them.
- Avoid taking photos: Photographing geishas or maikos in public as they walk along the streets to meet clients is considered disrespectful and can interfere with their schedule. Instead we suggest quietly admiring from a distance as they approach and pass, then snapping a photo from behind. Avoid stopping them or calling out for a photo under any circumstance.
Attending geisha performance and events:
If you are fortunate enough to attend an ozashiki (geisha performance) or dinner with a geisha, here are some further etiquette tips:
- Dress appropriately: Casual or revealing clothing is disrespectful to the cultural ambiance. Shoes will need to be removed; we recommend wearing clean socks for courtesy and comfort.
- Mind your manners: The geisha performance setting calls for a quieter demeanour that reflects the grace and poise of the occasion. Bow slightly when greeting a geisha or maiko and refrain from overly loud or excitable behaviour.
- Photography: During private events, it is usually permitted to take photographs or videos but it is still polite to seek permission as some geishas prefer not to be photographed and their request should be honoured.
- Be attentive: When interacting with a geisha or maiko, show genuine interest in their art and culture. Listen and engage in conversation with respect, appreciating the effort they put into their craft.
- Serving drinks: In keeping with tradition, guests and geisha pour drinks for each other, so it is customary for guests to serve the geisha in this way.
- Tipping: It is customary practice to tip the geisha at the end of the performance. The money should always be placed in an envelope then handed to the geisha.
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